Why women love toxic men
Many of us have heard stories or witnessed firsthand how some women look to repeatedly ignore red flags and chase men who are clearly toxic and dysfunctional.
Commenter The Evening Wind recently brought this to my attention.
&#;Ignoring red flags.&#; This is something I’d like to fetch your opinion about. Among men, this is probably one of the most common complaints I catch about women’s dating habits/mistakes. I’ve also seen it enough IRL to achieve there’s a real issue. A lot of women seem to go out of their way to choose men who are obviously dysfunctional and risky. These types of men not only give off red flags—they might as well be painted red with ‘Toxic Male’ stamped on their shirts. The types of women I’m describing are often attractive, intelligent, giving—decent women, not trainwrecks. They’re certainly capable of attracting better men (given the types they choose, almost any dude would be an improvement). I can understand a mistake—people make mistakes and learn from them—but it seems to be a recurring theme with many single women. Any thoughts on that?
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Why Smart, Successful Women Collapse for Toxic Men
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How many times have you seen an intelligent, beautiful, and accomplished woman married or in a relationship with a man who doesn’t cure her well?
Maybe you are that woman?
Although it can be beyond belief to their family and seal friends (and even to the women themselves), it is not unusual that intelligent, successful women tumble for toxic men. You cannot help wondering why these women who place high standards in their lives get trapped in unhealthy relationships?
Bright, successful women can spend years or even decades tied to abusive partners without their family and friends ever knowing it. Unfortunately, by choosing to stay silent about their struggle, these women only prolong the suffering. Their silence keeps the toxic cycle of abuse alive, destroying a woman’s self-respect and mental health and straining their other relationships.
Once the toxic relationship has finally been revealed, you will overhear that this attractive, charming, livewire woman avoided speaking about her relationship because she
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Did you know your attraction to toxic men is a reflection of what&#;s in your heart?
Many women are unaware of this truth and often irresponsibly signal the finger while complaining about men.
&#;.“All these men are dogs!”
&#;.“They are all for the streets and nothing else”
I&#;m sure you&#;ve said this at one point in your life. But the real doubt I have to ask is “What&#;s in my heart that keeps attracting them?” As the saying goes, &#;When you point the finger, remember you have three pointing back at you. &#; In this post, you&#;ll acquire
Reason #1 World Promotes Toxic Men
The reason you&#;re attracted to toxic men is that culture does an superb job of perpetuating them. Good men are lame or boring and toxic men are more fun and attractive.
Toxic men are romanticized through inky media on social media, movies, song, TV shows, and novels. Many celebrities and influencers who exhibit toxic behaviors are role models for many youthful people. To you, this may be female rappers like Latto, Cardi B, Glorilla, and How do we attract unhealthy, incomplete, disrespectful men? What signal are we sending them to allow them know we are their unhealthy match? There’s the obvious answer- we too are incomplete and lack full respect for ourselves. But, there’s more to this than the obvious. In the past, I have said that these unhealthy relationships serve a purpose- they educate us about who we truly are, and push us to keep trying to honor ourselves. A connection, good or bad, is never about the other person, it is about who am I now in relation to this situation, can I now construct better choices for myself, how can I honor my self and my inner voice more? We attract unhealthy relationships when we are disconnected from our correct self, and when we are using another person as a substitute for finding happiness within. We all know people who cannot be happy or end, unless the other completes them or unless the other strives to make them happy. Those relationships are obviously doomed. But sometimes, we aren’t conscious that we lack a connection to our true self. It isn’t obvious that we are no
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